Bullying of any kind can be detrimental to one's health and well-being. Whether accomplished using traditional face-to-face methods or by using an electronic device, bullying can cause long lasting effects that can carry into adulthood.
Since many children do not tell a trusted adult if they are a victim of cyberbullying, it is crucial that parents and educators recognize the warning signs and symptoms of a child who is being bullied electronically. The list provided below, details important clues and insight in determining if a child may be at risk, either as a victim or as the cyberbully.
If a child is being harassed or bullied online, he or she may:
- Be reluctant to use the computer or electronic device
- Avoid discussion about what they are doing on the computer, or other electronic device
- Look or appear nervous, anxious or jumpy when receiving an email, IM or text message
- Display unusual anger, sadness, and depression after using the computer or electronic device
- Discuss revenge
- Exit or click out of whatever they are doing, if a person walks by
- Unexpectedly quits using the computer or electronic device
- Be having trouble sleeping or have other sleeping disturbances
- Show a decline in school homework or grades
- Have an unusual interest in self-harm or in suicide
- Exhibit unusual mood swings
- Not feel well, headaches, upset stomach
- Become reclusive, anti-social and/or is losing friends
- Be unusually withdrawn or depressed
- Not want to be involved in family or school activities
Signs a child may be the bully:
- He or she may use numerous online accounts or accounts that are not theirs
- When using the computer or electronic device, he or she excessively laughs
- May avoid discussion or conversations regarding online activities
- May close or click out whatever he or she is doing when a person walks by
- May frequently use the computer, especially at night
- May become upset if computer access or other electronic device is denied
In order to keep all children safer online, it is imperative parents educate themselves and one another on the issues and concerns children may face on the Internet. Although some issues may be uncomfortable to discuss, it is important to communicate these concerns in an open and honest fashion. Specifically address cyberbullying with children before it happens, explain what it means, the different methods used and what to do if cyberbullying does occur.
By reiterating and reassuring children to notify a parent or trusted adult if they are bullied online, children will have a safer electronic experience.
For further information, read What is Cyberbullying and Cyberbullying Ends in Tragedy .
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